23 March, 2006

Circle of Life

My friend, wanlyn just gave birth to a baby boy on March 18, 06. Her husband show me the video of her magical moment. Is not a process that i want to go through. let's just said i love my mum more and she have all my respect after watching the video.

"Being a mother, you give life and death to a child." ( my brother once told me)

Come to think of it, is weird yet is real. The circle of life, you born, you gettin old, you sick, you die. No one, not a single living soul will escape the circle of life.

Bringing a life to earth is an endless job, you have to teach them to be good, to be polite, to be kind, to be loving, to be smart, to be friendly.......so on and on, then without realization, they grown up, you have to tolerate their hobbies, their favorite songs, their fashion sense, their friends, their way of talking.....and so on, What next? they went to college, you start missing them and worrying about them...then they graduate...working or starting up a business....then they might get married ,might choose to stay single, might choose to come out from the closet to declare their sexual orientation. ( As long as they are happy with that person, you'll love them and support them because you bring the little thing to this earth.)
Soon, they might bring another life to this earth.......then you realize.... the wrinkle on your face, your weak knees soar whenever it rain, you need glasses to read paper, you feel like your TVs show is whispering even tough the volume is turn up to 30.

Welcome to the circle of life.....

To all the mothers out there, I love you all, with my best wishes.


Note: as for myself, i wanna bring life to earth one day, but not in my womb, instead is from someone else womb, someone who had left their children.

08 March, 2006

--the Moment--

"life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away." ( i read it in the email from my uncle, love it!). Just wanna share it with you all and including some of my thoughts.

hope those moments stay in your heart forever....and for those who never had that moment,
is time to think about your life,

maybe
take a bold step,
make a brave decision,
change your partner,
change your job,
learn new hobbies,
travel someplace that you never been,
step out from your comfort zone,
who knows you might find the moment that take your breath away.


would it be wonderful if some of you could share the moments that take your breath away?
the first time when you see sunrise, sunset, snow....etc
your first puppy love, your crush,
your first kiss,
your first time.....
on a flight
leaving home
..........let's just leave it to your memory.